Anxiety: What it is and how you can treat it

What is anxiety? It is a often discussed topic in the mental health community. However, many people may not have a clear understanding of what it actually is.

I have suffered from anxiety to a varying degree since I was about 11 or 12 years old. I was teased a lot in school and it caused a lot of common symptoms of anxiety to emerge.

So, what is anxiety?

What is anxiety?

Anxiety is defined by Mayo Clinic as:

Experiencing occasional anxiety is a normal part of life. However, people with anxiety disorders frequently have intense, excessive and persistent worry and fear about everyday situations. Often, anxiety disorders involve repeated episodes of sudden feelings of intense anxiety and fear or terror that reach a peak within minutes (panic attacks).

So, while some anxiety is normal, the degree to which people with a diagnosis experience it is not normal.

What are the symptoms?

Common anxiety signs and symptoms (according to the above linked article) include:

Feeling nervous, restless or tense

Having a sense of impending danger, panic or doom

Having an increased heart rate

Breathing rapidly (hyperventilation)



Feeling weak or tired

Trouble concentrating or thinking about anything other than the present worry

Having trouble sleeping

Experiencing gastrointestinal (GI) problems

Having difficulty controlling worry

Having the urge to avoid things that trigger anxiety

Who does it affect?

According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, anxiety is the most common mental illness. It affects 40 million people in the US. That is 18.1% of the population!

It is most common among those 13-60, and is more likely to affect women, but can be common in older adults as well.

How do you treat it?

There are a lot of really effective ways to manage anxiety, although sadly it is common for it to go untreated. This is why we need to talk about it and share resources openly. We need to do our part to erase the stigma so that those fighting this illness find the courage to speak up.


If you think you are suffering from anxiety, make an appointment with your primary care physician. They can likely refer you to a psychiatrist who will be able to further assess the situation.

Once you get in to see the psychiatrist, you will discuss the symptoms you have been facing. He or she may prescribe medication to help you cope. This could be medication that you take daily and proactively, or it could be just on an as needed basis. Whatever the case, there are a lot of great options out there.


Once you see a psychiatrist, they may recommend also meeting with a therapist. I went back to therapy a couple months ago and I already see so much improvement in my symptoms.

The therapist (or social worker, or psychologist) will listen to your issues and based on that, come up with some coping strategies that you can use to manage your anxiety.


I firmly believe in the power of exercise. It releases feel-good chemicals that act as a powerhouse to fight anxiety and depression.

I recommend making it a priority to break a sweat at least 3 days a week for at least 30 minutes. You can do whatever you enjoy: power-walking, jogging, lifting weights, martial arts… The key is to find something you enjoy!

Essential oils

I have been using essential oils for about 3 years and have found them greatly beneficial for my anxiety and depression.

Types of essential oils you can try:

  • Citrus oils: Oils like orange smell happy and bright and can often distract your brain from whatever you are feeling
  • Lavender: This one is famous for its soothing properties. Try adding a few drops to some epsom salt and enjoying a relaxing bath.
  • Roman chamomile: This one would be great in the diffuser at bed time or rubbed on the soles of your feet.


I recently wrote a blog post about this. To sum up, journaling has a lot of great benefits. It can rid your brain of negative thoughts and get you on the path to a better mindset.

What can you write about? There are lots of ways you can get started if you are unsure! You can write down a list of daily positive affirmations, or things you are grateful for. You could try writing down a stream of consciousness, like a mind dump. There are a lot of options.


There are supplements that have been shown to be effective for helping those with anxiety or depression. You could try:

  • B complex
  • Valerian root
  • GABA
  • Probiotics
  • Omega 3 fatty acids

Finding an ally

Finding someone you can be vulnerable with is critical. Apart from a therapist, you need someone in your close circle that you can talk to about your anxiety.

I recommend setting aside time to talk to them like an appointment on your calendar. Set a daily reminder on your phone to check in via text if that is okay with them. Just being able to talk to a friend can make a world of difference.

You are not alone.

The important thing to remember is while your symptoms can feel debilitating and isolating, you are by no means alone. The statistics above prove that is far from being true. You are surrounded by people with their own journeys and battles, and many of them walk the same path as you.

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68 thoughts on “Anxiety: What it is and how you can treat it”

  1. I definitely love getting some fresh air and getting active when I’m feeling incredibly overwhelmed or anxious. It’s always helped, and it’s why I grew to love exercising so much. Not only was I receiving the physical benefits of getting into shape and being healthy, but it was helping me clear my mind and feel more “reset” and “recharged” mentally. These are great tips!

  2. Mama Maggie's Kitchen

    I had this feeling of anxiety before. I think everyone does. I am just so lucky to have my family with me to help me cope up with it. Thank you for sharing this.

  3. I suffered from panic attacks for years. Finally I got rid of it trough meditation, diet and lifestyle change. Now I’m trying to help my kid who suffers from social anxiety and fear of sleeping at night. Thank you for this article. All tips are appreciated.

    1. Hey Natalie, glad you are doing better. That’s got to be tough trying to help your child. Keep being a good support system, and hang in there. Thanks for reading!

  4. It was a period that my best friend suffered a lot of anxiety. Now she is better. It helped her a lot moving into another place and starting here a new life.

  5. Love the variety of treatment options you suggest. It’s integral for people to have a say in their own treatment and know the offers. So they can choose what is right for them. I’ve found the benefits of essential oils when anxiety strikes before bed!

    1. Hey Jen, you are very welcome! I love when people read my posts to help a loved one. That’s what the world’s all about! Take care, and thanks for reading 🙂

  6. I believe in the power of exercise too. Sometimes when the day is particularly awful, a quick walk or a few yoga stretches can really help take my mind off things.

    1. Hey Pam, I’ve become more of a worrier this year myself. It’s hard to avoid with so much uncertainty in the world. Hang in there, and thanks for reading!

  7. I want to thank you so much for sharing this post. I live with social anxiety and there have been plenty of times where I’ve found it to be very crippling growing up and still till this day. I don’t think people realize the severity of anxiety and it’s effect on someone. You highlighted a lot of great points. Very well written. Continue to spread awareness.

  8. As mom to 3 with major anxiety issues, I agree with a lot of what you wrote. A couple tips for other readers — if you’re taking any OTC medications, vitamins, or even weight-loss or weight-training supplements, make sure your psychiatrist knows about them. Also on essential oils — vetiver and frankincense have terrific calming properties in them, and one of my daughter diffuses them consistently in her room.

  9. I suffered anxiety last year and early this year and I tried most of your tips and it does help. Oils and exercising can really help. But my favorite is journaling, if I ever feel like having a panic attack, I write it all out. And it somehow helps me at ease and feel like I’ve relieved myself from the anxiety.

  10. Ahhh journaling is soooo helpful ? I experienced a handful of anxiety attacks around age 12, I’m so glad they stopped but it’s easy to feel worked up. Journalling helps me wot through my thought process! thank you for sharing!!

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